I want it to be proper first time!
Hi Caroline
I am a 15 year old boy. I have not had a girlfriend for about 2 years now and I want to get into a proper relationship with a girl and have sex. I could have sex, but I want it to proper first time I do it. Instead of any of girl, Iwant to be in a relationship with someone I really like. What do you suggest I do to get a girlfriend? I am not sure what to do any more? Hope you can help me out
Take Care Sexual Needed Teen
Hi sexual neeedteen and very normal problem to young men your age!
Most young guys your age feel that when they are ready to have a girlfriend one will pop up out of the blue, not so my friend! most girlfriends start at secondary school, is there any girl at school you like the look of? is there any girl who catches your eye? You see everyday day in day out? Perhaps look again and maybe they are looking at you too.
Firstly, don't look eager to get a girlfriend, be polite, and smile to make first contact, look and smile at them, say hi or hello when you meet in passing at school or when you see someone you like the look of! Once you've started saying hi or hello then you can actually start up a conversation with them next time build it up make friends with them then after a few weeks ask them if they want to see a movie or go for dance at a club or something. That's how to start it, don't go too fast and be friends first, it does work you know! Get to know each other and when she's ready and only when she's ready, then take it slow and be safe (you know what I mean!)
But the main thing is making contact and trying to say Hi or something like that be friends then have laughs and fun then it will take its course, don't rush.
Good Luck
regards
Caroline